Pampering Is Lovingly Caring For My Child’s Soul
Pampering is a term that would be translated as “stroking another person’s soul and giving affection”. It has its origins in the Nahuatl language, a language that emerged over a thousand years ago.
Today, this word continues to fascinate us, above all, for its therapeutic value.
Although the concept of soul has been marginalized and criticized by a large part of the scientific community, its cultural and spiritual value is still very present among all of us.
As a curious fact, we can make reference to Carl Gustav Jung, one of the few psychoanalysts interested in this theme.
-Carl Gustav Jung-
Whether we believe in the existence of the soul or not, we can focus, above all, on its symbolic representation.
That’s where affection is found, that essence of the human being that must be attended to and valued to enlighten the people we truly love.
So one of our most beautiful responsibilities as a parent is to provide that connection early. This love that goes beyond the baby’s skin and reaches its roots, its essence and – why not? – your soul.
Pampering is much more than hugging
There are those who say that nothing is as beautiful as a “pamper”, not even giving a hug. However, the term “pamper” goes much further.
It means giving support and love on the inner plane. Pampering is to caress and prove our emotions, strengthen a bond, express affection through the look and simple presence so that we are aware that we are not going to be abandoned.
Knowing that the other person is with us, that they love us, that we are valued and that we are someone important to their heart.
You will grow in my arms so I can rock your body, your heart and your soul
The principles of creation with attachment confirm the principle that defines the term pampering. This very old word can also be translated as “connecting with each other with affection”.
That is, caressing to reach the person’s heart and connect with their essence . Every time you breastfeed your child, you are babysitting.
Few acts so beautiful could represent so well the art of touching our baby’s soul to nourish it with the affection we provide when we look at it and caress it.
Attachment creation teaches us that the time we spend with the baby in our arms is very short. However, the memory of that love and that acceptance lasts for a lifetime.
It is therefore something worth investing in. It requires giving constant, real and secure affection that will undoubtedly have repercussions in the future.
Pampering is weaving a web of positive emotions in the hearts of our children
Few things are more vital to a baby than feeling loved and protected.
In addition to fulfilling your hours of sleep, rocking you in the swing of your arms when you cry or serving you, what will enable a child to grow up happy and mature is true love. A love that shines through, that is felt, palpable and exhaled.
I caress your soul to fully satisfy your emotions
Pampering is a vital principle. It is something that we have to apply on a daily basis to favor the establishment of new neuronal connections.
It serves to educate without fear, to give shape to this affective language that legitimizes people. In addition, it guides children and builds lasting bonds that we can rely on.
If this word has been revealed to us, it is because of its usefulness. It has a transcendent value for human beings, understood as a social entity that needs positive emotions to grow, feel part of a group and survive.
Pampering is also removing the person’s fears, putting an end to their insecurities and removing their sadness and anxieties from their heart.
Let’s not hesitate at the time to resort to this art with the people we care about, but, above all, with our children.
We must embrace your soul to give the world strong people who see their reason for being in love.
