Bad Genius Is Not Synonymous With Personality
How many times, faced with a tantrum or a cross response from a child (or not that child), we hear parents or relatives say: “It’s just that she has a lot of personality!” Well, we must begin to understand that bad genius is not synonymous with personality, let alone a lot of personality. And there is no reason for anyone to be proud of having a bad temper.
Let’s define what is personality and what is bad genius
Personality refers to the set of traits, qualities or circumstances that indicate a person’s own nature, and that make him different from others. Personality shapes a person’s temperament and is how he reacts to situations and relates to others.
On the other hand, bad temper has to do with attitudes or a predisposition to be or get angry quickly and without much apparent reason. It relates to a negative and sometimes even aggressive state of people who claim to have or have a bad temper.
In addition, we can associate it with people who are intransigent, who do not listen, who do not take advice and who quickly lose patience.
However, personality is something we all have. That is, all people have a personality and all people have a personality type, but not all of us have a bad temper.
So, bad genius is not synonymous with having personality or a lot of personality. Simply, it is one more feature among many others. It is a characteristic of a person’s temperament and personality.
Personality and bad genius: we shouldn’t confuse the terms
All the people who brag about their bad behavior and rudeness, those who believe they have the authority to demand that the rest of the world support their outbursts, those who have little tact and no empathy for others…
All these people must know that their bad temper is not justified by having a strong personality. Much less allow them to feel strong and powerful. All these people must know that they are simply in a very bad mood, and there is nothing good or special about it.
In fact, if we were to ask some psychologists to talk about this subject, perhaps they would say that a person who doesn’t know how to control himself not only doesn’t have a lot of personality, he probably also has problems with his personality.
On the contrary, a person with a strong personality is able to control himself so as not to lose his temper without justified reasons. And, in addition, he also knows how to relate and behave with people, speaking and addressing them with politeness, respect and affection.
Bad genius is not synonymous with personality
Not only do we disagree that having a bad temper is synonymous with personality or being a person with a lot of personality, we would also dare to say that having a bad temper and having a lot of personality are antonyms. Check it out for yourself:
- A person with a lot of personality controls himself in extreme situations. A person with a bad temper immediately loses his temper, warning, exclaiming, threatening and insulting whoever and whatever it is, without reason and meaningless.
- Unlike a person who is predisposed to say “I hope they don’t come and tell me these things, because I don’t even think and I already talk a lot, and I check to see if I’m on the corner” , a person with a lot of personality will be predisposed to observe and analyze everything around you before speaking or acting.
- If you need to answer or put someone in your place, a person who has a lot of personality will look for solid arguments for that. Whoever has a bad temper will only have two threats and three screams to utter.
- Being negative, rash, or impetuous is not the same as being positive, pleasant, and calm. It is different to be overwhelmed by anger and to know how to control yourself by thinking. It is better to spend time together with calm and calm people than to be with people who are agitated by anything with bad behavior.
- A lot of personality means knowing how to listen and receive criticism, knowing how to change behavior if it makes us a better person. A lot of personality involves learning more and more knowledge and attitudes. On the contrary, having a lot of bad temper means increasing the swearing list every day, to get rid of them as soon as possible. A lot of bad genius involves ignoring criticism and bragging about unhelpful behavior.
Feed your child’s personality
Today, getting attention is very fashionable and sometimes at any cost or price. Thus, some parents are proud of their children when they show their genius or, better said, their bad temper, as they believe that it denotes a lot of personality. However, when it comes to education, they aren’t exactly helping.
Feeding children’s bad tempers can have negative effects on their development and personality shaping. On the contrary, for children and young people, it is very positive to nurture a good temperament so that they develop a good character.
An upstanding, critical and rational personality, capable of self-control of emotions and objectivity, tolerant and empathetic. Thus, this personality type will distinguish them and allow them to perform much better in different areas in the present and in the future, reaching their goals.
Lastly…
Bad genius is not synonymous with having a lot of personality. Having a bad temper might mean having a bad character. However, in most cases, having a bad temper does not even indicate a bad character, but rather denotes little personality, although such statements may irritate those who pride themselves on having a bad temper…
People who have a lot of personality do not lose their minds so easily and have many resources to deal with situations and interact with people.
Those who don’t have a lot of personality have no other way out but their self-centeredness and their ‘attacks’. Also, cultivating a lot of personality is not an easy task, while yelling or answering badly is something anyone can do…
